In many companies difficult colleagues are,
unfortunately, the standard - not the exception. They come in
many packages; they may be rude, loud, manipulative, or absurdly
competitive. It's your choice whether you gnash your teeth over their
behavior, or whether you want to deal with them effectively. If you're in
the latter category, here's how:

Limit Your Interaction. Sadly, this is not always a possibility. But if the annoying coworker in your office is someone you do not have to actually spend time working with, then avoid them whenever possible.
There's no point in having your time wasted by someone you don't enjoy, so if you see them headed your way, look busy!

Express Yourself. If a coworker
constantly says unpleasant or negative things around you, call them on it
in a non-confrontational way. People tend to react better to criticism
when it's delivered in a way that expresses how their actions affect
someone else.
For instance, try something like, "I really find that it's easier to stay focused at work when I'm positive.
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